Friday 29 April 2016

{Soulfood Friday}

 









I started to write a short story in long hand a few months ago. This past week I have been editing it and working on some other writing projects that have been on the back burner for a while. It's wonderful when out of nowhere the words just start falling like  great fat raindrops onto the dry, white page. So cathartic! I have been reading Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott which has some excellent advice for writers of all kinds. I love her ideas about just writing in stream of consciousness during a first draft. Perfectionism over every word and comma is inspirations worst enemy I am certain. I have just ordered Ursula Le Guin's Steering the Craft  too as I've heard so many wonderful things about it and of course her writing is exquisite. Her advice to a young writer is something I re-read again and again when embarking on my own humble word-smithing.  I've also enjoyed listening to Marilynne Robinson readings and interviews on youtube. Her characters radiate humanity and her prose shimmers with stark yet graceful imagery. If you haven't read Gilead yet, I highly recommend it.

The girls wanted to look through old photos the other day. We dusted off our Wedding album and there were lots of ohhs and ahhs about how young we looked. Well it's true but that was four children ago so we have a right to a few wrinkles and grey hairs by now.  I remember being equally fascinated, as a child, by my own parents wedding pictures. Looking back at old photos brings up so many emotions. Time and the way memory processes it is such a mysterious thing. In some ways the us in those pictures seem almost like strangers and yet in other ways it seems like we were standing outside that beautiful old church only days ago, our teeth chattering with both excitement and cold ( why did we decide to marry in March?) It's funny how time goes by with it's bags packed full of story and experience yet deep down inside at the core you feel just as confused and thrilled about life as you did when you were three.

Boo bought (with her own money) a beautiful gardening planner for me last year. It has some very quaint recipes in it and little envelopes for storing seeds. The sewing, planting and harvesting calendar included is very helpful and it's just plain, lovely to sit down and write notes on what seeds we've planted and what is blooming and when in the garden. It's practical too as it helps me plan the following year  based on when certain flowers are coming up this year. I love to potter about the garden and dream about what plants we'll put where. I love the way gardens change year on year. I like to scatter wildflower seeds as well as raising seedlings to plant out, along with all the self seeding varieties this makes room for plenty of  surprises.

I'm looking forward to a weekend of peaceful pottering around. xx

Every Friday I'll be pausing to notice something from the week that has nourished my soul. 

A special, sacred-everyday moment captured on camera, or perhaps a snippet from a book, a recipe still warm from the kitchen or something whimsical that simply made me smile.
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Here are a few simple things that have fed my soul this week. 

What has inspired/fed/nourished your soul this week friends? 

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 Feel free to link up to your own soulful spaces either at the bottom of this post or in the comments.
   

   






Friday 22 April 2016

{Soulfood Friday}


The week began with four seasons in one day. We awoke to snow gently falling in big fuzzy flakes over the daffodils. After about an hour the sky completely cleared and it was sunny enough to hang my washing out. At about 2 in the afternoon an ominous storm cloud rolled over up and pelted the garden with a shot of hailstones. Not long after the hail turned to huge fat raindrops. The shower was so heavy the country road opposite our house was turned into a stream. Strange weather, strange days. The children thought it was a great adventure. I have to admit I'm a little less keen on snow in April than they are. 

I have found space to sit in the sun (however fleetingly it shines) write, read and generally potter. Schedules may not be very romantic things but writing things down and reserving space in the margins for all kind of necessary errors seems to work for us at the moment. I used to be the kind of person that thrived with pieces of note paper, trinkets and books lounging all over the place. As I have grown and begun to share space with ever more growing little humans who all have their own needs, styles and stuff I have realized how deep my need for order is. The key to it all seems to be in letting go of things when necessary instead of pushing through just for the sake of finishing a job (although that is nice too) I think it is also about being content with loose ends from time to time while still keeping spaces on the borders for putting the house back together again at key moments in the day so it doesn't feel like there's a big skein of yarn unraveling all over the house which will probably need to be wound up when I'm most tired and least in the mood to do it. There is something deeply satisfying to me about creating small pockets of beauty and knowing that there is a place for everything even if things are not always in them. That whole idea applied to hours in the day seems to suit me too.

Matilda read a beautifully illustrated version of the Cinderella story to us in bed last night. Tani was away at work last night The little girl inside me could get lost in these images...


Wishing you all a happy weekend!




Daffodils just make me happy.



As does this sweet little face.
















Every Friday I'll be pausing to notice something from the week that has nourished my soul. 

A special, sacred-everyday moment captured on camera, or perhaps a snippet from a book, a recipe still warm from the kitchen or something whimsical that simply made me smile.
 * 
Here are a few simple things that have fed my soul this week. 

What has inspired/fed/nourished your soul this week friends? 

*
 Feel free to link up to your own soulful spaces either at the bottom of this post or in the comments.

   

   

Friday 15 April 2016

{Soulfood Friday}

Some happy, soulful moments from our week... 

Quiet moments with Rowan.





Sweet Tilly







Baby sunflowers peeping through.
Big sis Boo wrapping up the pass the parcel...


5 time around the sun. My sweet birthday girl in her birthday dress.
 



Every Friday I'll be pausing to notice something from the week that has nourished my soul. 

A special, sacred-everyday moment captured on camera, or perhaps a snippet from a book, a recipe still warm from the kitchen or something whimsical that simply made me smile.
 * 
Here are a few simple things that have fed my soul this week. 

What has inspired/fed/nourished your soul this week friends? 
*
 Feel free to link up to your own soulful spaces either at the bottom of this post or in the comments.